Bonnie emailed this question: "My children’s toys are everywhere! We thought making a playroom was the right thing to do but they hardly use it. Our house is small and there isn't a lot of room in the twin's bedroom. What can we do to keep the toy clutter from taking over our house?"
Young children want your company. I suspect the reason the toys are everywhere is your children follow you throughout the house with their companions, the toys. On the positive side, it's a whole lot easier making sure your children are happy and safe if they are following you. To keep the toy clutter from endangering your sanity follow these guidelines.
- *Set up some areas as toy-free zones. There is no reason for toys to be in the adults' bedroom, the formal living room (assuming there is an informal family room) and the foyer. There may be other areas in your home that are not conducive to play. Setting limits allows you to keep control on the amount of toy clutter.
- *Set up a small amount of toy storage in each kid-friendly room. Shelves, bins, storage ottomans, ans baskets are useful to hold toys and keep the surroundings clutter-free. Keep the storage simple so it's easy for your children to access and use. Keep the number of toys relatively small to avoid overwhelming your children with options - and to limit the amount to pick up. Turn-about is fair play: you can set up a special adult area in the playroom. A comfortable chair, good lighting and a table provide you a place to work on a small project or read a book while your children play happily supervised.
- *Establish a routine for clean-up. Some children can, and will, put one toy away before they get out another one with gentle reminding. Some children need to get a lot of toys out at the same time, and will need a specific clean-up time - such as before lunch. Make clean-up as fun as possible by singing a song (that clean-up song sung by the purple dinosaur served our family well) or making it a game.
Thank you Bonnie for the question. I hope this provides you with the information you needed.
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2 comments:
This is helpful. Toys can drive me nuts. I think my daughter has too many toys and I would love to get rid of some. Do you have any idea for how I can do that?
Usually after the age of three, you must include your child in the decluttering process.
Pick a time when both you and your child are energized and can focus on the task at hand.
Scheduling a fun activity after the decluttering process can help motivate you and your child to get through the decluttering.
Be respectful of energy levels and attention spans. Trying to work beyond a child's attention span will be extremely frustrating for all involved. A child's attention span may only be 10 - 15 minutes.
Make decluttering a game. I like to play "tea party", especially for decluttering stuffed animals. Set the table for a tea party and the child grabs her favorite toys to come to the party. These toys stay. Bag the other toys for a "vacation." The "vacation" lasts two weeks. Any vacationing toy that the child requests can stay. The toys that remain in the "vacation bag" after a couple weeks are good candidates to give away.
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